HABITS OF HIGHLY EFFECTIVE PEOPLE

Top 7 Lessons learned From The Book "The 7 Habits Of Highly Effective People"

Habit 1: Be Proactive

Stephen Covey refers to proactivity as simply taking responsibility for your life. 

Those who think proactively tend to focus their efforts on what they can do something about. They think in terms of, “I can”, “I will”, “I prefer”.

Habit 2: Begin With The End In Mind 

What is your end goal and what can you do to reach it?

Build a Personal Mission Statement to help you keep on track.

Having a mission statement is something that can help you focus on your goals and what you can do to meet them.

Habit 3: Put First Things First

Prioritize.

Covey states, “Putting first things first means living and being driven by the principles you value most, not by the agendas and forces surrounding you.”

It allows us to access a more balanced life.

Habit 4: Think Win-Win

Putting your attention less on competition and more on collaboration.

When you take the time to look at what benefits both parties, it shows respect, maturity, integrity, and confidence. 

It can positively affect your character and improve relationships.

Habit 5: Seek First To Understand, Then To Be Understood

Communication, specifically listening, is the basis for this habit.

Do not listen with the intent to reply, listen to understand.

Doing this is another great way to improving the relationship.

Habit 6: Synergize

Synergy refers to teamwork.

Take the time to truly accept the other person’s differences. Then use that understanding to feed off of each other and gain new insight into your situation.

Next time you’re in a difficult situation, try out the path to synergy.

Habit 7: Sharpen The Saw

Focus on the most important thing you have, YOU. When you ‘sharpen the saw’, you are taking the time you need for self-renewal.

Outwitting The Devil

𝐓𝐨𝐩 𝟏𝟎 𝐋𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐝 𝐅𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐁𝐨𝐨𝐤 "𝐎𝐮𝐭𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐃𝐞𝐯𝐢𝐥".

1. “Remember that your dominating thoughts attract, through a definite law of nature, by the shortest and most convenient route, their physical counterpart. Be careful what

your thoughts dwell upon.”

2. “You are entitled to know that two entities occupy your body. One of these entities is motivated by and responds to the impulse of fear. The other is motivated by and responds to the impulse of faith. Will be guided by faith or will you allow fear to overtake you?”

3. “The capacity to surmount failure without being discouraged is the chief asset of every person who attains outstanding success in any calling.”

4. “Failure is man-made circumstance. It is never real until accepted by man as permanent.”

5. “Your only limitation is the one which you set up in your own mind.”

6. “Nature will not tolerate idleness or vacuums of any sort. All space must be and is filled with something. When the individual does not use the brain for the expression of positive, creative thoughts, nature fills the vacuum by forcing the brain to act upon negative thoughts.”

7. “The person who moves with definiteness recognizes the difference between temporary defeat and failure. When plans fail he substitutes others but he does not change his purpose. He perseveres.”

 “FEAR is the tool of a man-made devil.”

9. “Failure always is a blessing when it forces one to acquire knowledge or to build habits that lead to the achievement of one’s major purpose in life.”

10. “Men and women who come to the closing chapter of life disappointed because they did not attain the goal which they had set their hearts upon achieving, they teach you what not to do.”

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Million Dollars Habits

Top 10 lesson learned from the book MILLION DOLLAR HABITS:

1. "You are where you are and what you are because of yourself. Everything you are today, or ever will be in the future, is up to you. Your life today is the sum total result of your choices, decisions and actions up to this point."

2. "You can write the script of your own life, and if you are not happy with the current script, you can rip it up and write a new one."

3. "Success is the ability to live your life the way you want to live it, doing what you most enjoy, surrounded by people you admire and respect."

4. "Arise early each morning and read for 30 to 60 minutes in your field. Attend every seminar and course you possibly can. Make it a habit to seek out and attend at least four seminar programs per year in your field."

5. "Your “reference group” would determine as much as 95 percent of your success or failure in life. These can be members of your family; your coworkers; or members of your political party, church, or social organizations."

6. "The average self-made millionaire spends 20 to 30 hours per month thinking, studying, and planning finances."

7. "Your time is your life. Choose your job with care. Your time is more important than the money that you will receive. Money can be replaced, but time spent is gone forever."

8. "The Law of Sowing and Reaping: Whatsoever you sow, that also shall you reap. Whatever you put in, or do for others, will eventually come back to you."

9. "In one study conducted some years ago, the researchers found many men and women who accomplished great things had—when they were young—been avid readers of the biographies and autobiographies of successful people."

10. "The whole secret of a successful life is to find out what is one’s destiny to do, and then do it."

THE POWER OF THE SUBCONSCIOUS MIND.

10 Lessons From the Book “The Power of Your Subconscious Mind”

1.You are what you think all day long – good or bad, choice is yours.

2.You have the power to choose – choose wisely – happiness, gratitude, joyous or sadness, ungrateful.

 

3.Your subconscious mind doesn’t argue with you; it accepts what your conscious mind commands.

4.Your conscious mind is the watchman at the gate to protect your subconscious mind from false impressions.

5.Watch what you say, your subconscious mind can’t take a joke and bring all negative or positive things to pass.

6.Do not let others think for you. Choose your own thoughts.

7.You have the power to choose how will you react.

8.Every thought is a cause and every condition is an effect.

9.Your subconscious knows all the answers.

10.You are the captain of your soul – chose life, love, health and happiness.

365 Days with Self-discipline.

8 LESSONS FROM 365 DAYS WITH SELF DISCIPLINE 

1. Self Discipline Is Hard 

Self-discipline means living your life the hard way: resisting temptations and instant gratification, in order to receive bigger and better rewards in the future. It’s certainly easier to avoid all kinds of discomfort and indulge yourself whenever you want, but in the end, all that you get from that approach is fleeting pleasure now at the expense of your future, which otherwise could have been much better.

2. One Decision Can Set A Wrong Precedent 

It takes only a moment to make the wrong choice and jeopardize your future. What feels like an insignificant decision today can have a great, lasting impact on your future. Each choice sets a precedent — and when you make the same wrong choice several times in a row, it becomes your standard modus operandi .

3. You Have The Ability To Be Disciplined 

Humans have the capacity to act against their urges in exchange for a better future. Unfortunately, many people live by the principle of “if it feels good, do it, and if it doesn’t, don’t do it.”

Caving in to your temptations whenever you feel them emerge is like relinquishing your humanity, in a way. As an intelligent human being, you have an ability — and I daresay an obligation — to make decisions that are based on rational thinking, not on your instincts alone.

4. Be A Better Human 

Strive to be a better human and embrace your humanity by exercising your “willpower muscle,” instead of succumbing to your most primal (and least helpful for your long-term goals) part of the brain. Your most primal instincts may provide temporary comfort, but seldom are good for the long term, except when there is a direct threat to your survival.

5. Setup Systems For Self Discipline

Prepare yourself for difficult situations by putting up roadblocks ahead of time, when your resolve isn’t being tested. Your self- control system will do some of the heavy lifting for you, leaving your reserves of self-discipline to be used for the unplanned situations, when they arise.

6. It Is Up To You 

While external circumstances can affect you, in the end, whether or not they control your life depends on you. Just like James Allen said, when you achieve self-mastery, no one (and no thing) will have the power to enslave you.

7. Everyone Is Struggling 

Behind the scenes, everyone struggles in some areas of their lives.

8. Make The Choice Today 

The person you’ll become in ten years will most likely not be the same person you are today, but it will still be you — and it’s in your hands whether, ten years from now you’ll look back and feel glad you extended self-empathy well into the future, or find that you decided to be selfish and steal from your future for some fleeting pleasure today.

Can't Hurt Me

Top 10 Lessons learned From The Book "Can't Hurt Me"

1. Don't rely on motivation, become obsessed with your craft instead. 

Be so obsessed with your goals that people think you're nuts!

2. Don't aim to be liked by others. Aim to be the best version of yourself. 

When you're uniquely you, you'll appear extraordinary and uncommon to others.

3. Choose to overcome a little bit of pain every day.

You're mind will adapt and you'll become strong enough to overcome anything.

4. Never allow yourself to get complacent.

You have nothing to prove to others but everything to prove to yourself.

5. Shock others by far exceeding their expectations.

They should be at a loss for how you dominated them

6. You're only competing against yourself.

Run your own race, and you'll end up so far ahead of others they'll never catch you.

7. Help others and your own burden will become much lighter.

This is what being an effective leader is all about.

8. Be honest with yourself about your flaws.

Only through accepting them do you gain the power to change.

9. Surround yourself with a group of champions. Winners win together.

10. When you think you're at your maximum potential keep going. You're likely only at 40% of your potential.

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THE MILLIONAIRE FAST LANE

Top lessons learned from book-The Millionaire Fastlane .

1. You are the Driver

If you want to become rich fast, then you will have to be the driver. You control:

- Your money

- Your mindset

- Your financial future

Don’t allow others to drive your future - you determine your success - or failure.

2. The Fast Lane:

Invent Becoming a millionaire doesn’t always have to be a slow process. You can become rich if you:

- Invent

- Bring value

- Offer answers

Become the solution to someone else’s problem. That’s when you’ll make money.

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OWN YOUR MIND BY NAPOLEON HILLS.

Top 10 Lessons from "How to own your own mind" by Napoleon Hill

1. Creative Vision

Focus your mind intently on one or a few problems and your subconscious mind will reward you with solutions.

It also trains you to recognize the solution when you see it or come across it. Persistence and obsessiveness are essential.

2. Purpose

You must have a definite purpose, an obsessive mission, plans to follow, make use of the mastermind principle (learning from other greats), using the power of applied faith.

3. Traits of a mastermind

- Recognizes favorable opportunities

- Plans every move he makes

- Removes limitations from his own mind.

- Adopts and follows the habit of going the extra mile

- Assumes full responsibility for his own deeds

4. Negotiation skills

The ability to negotiate with others with the least amount of friction in order to achieve the greatest amount of friendly cooperation is the most important skill required.

In other words, human relations that benefit both parties.

5. Effort

Those who have a creative vision make their work appear effortless.

They get what they want with the least amount of effort.

6. Organized Thought

Make an effort to provide your mind with as many accurate and foundational facts as possible.

Habit, social heredity, and mimicry all play a significant role. Be aware of their individual effects on your life and thinking.

7. Emotions

You must train your mind and willpower to be the masters of your emotions.

An emotional mind can´t think like a rational mind.

8. Controlled attention

Controlled attention magnetizes the brain with the nature of one's dominant thoughts, aims, and purposes, causing one to be constantly on the lookout for everything necessary that is related to one's dominant thoughts.

9. Procrastination

You need to stop procrastinating by using the principles of self-discipline, perseverance and definitiveness of purpose.

Remove bad habits from your daily routine and replace them with productive ones.

10. Subconscious

Keep your subconscious mind stimulated.

The mind comes to believe any idea which is repeatedly presented. Make sure you feed your mind with as accurate and foundational facts as possible.

SAVINGS PLAN REMINDER

Start The New Year With Good Plan 2023

-------We have 365 days, 53 weeks and 12months in a year. 

CAN I SHOW YOU SOMETHING GREAT?

               *DAILY SAVING* 

100 naira daily------ 36,500 naira 

200 naira daily------ 73,000

300 naira daily------ 109,500

500 naira daily------ 182,500 

1,000 naira daily------ 365,000

1500 naira daily------ 547,500

2,000 naira daily------ 730,000 

2,500 naira daily------ 912,500

3,000 naira daily------ 1,095,000

     

            *WEEKLY SAVING* 

 500 naira weekly ——— 26,500

1,000 naira weekly------ 53,000

1500 naira weekly ------ 79,500

2,000 naira weekly ------ 106,000

2,500 naira weekly------ 132,500

3,000 naira weekly ------ 159,000

 

          *MONTHLY SAVINGS* 

2,000 naira monthly ------ 24,000

2,500 naira monthly ------ 30,000

3,000 naira monthly ------ 36,000

5,000 naira monthly —— 60,000

10,000 naira monthly — 120,000

15,000 naira monthly — 180,000

20,000 naira monthly — 240,000

Choose anyone you can be consistent with, meet a good carpenter to help you construct a piggy bank. 

Say NO to reckless spending in year *2023* 

Nothing is too small. *CONSIDERATIONS FOR 2023* 

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1. *ON EARNING* :

Never depend on single income. Make investment to create a second chance.

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 *2. ON SPENDING* :

If you buy things you do not need, soon you will have to sell things you need.

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3. *ON SAVINGS:* 

Do not save what is left after spending, but spend what is left after saving.

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4. *ON TAKING RISK:* 

Never test the depth of a river with both feet.

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5. *ON INVESTMENT* :* 

Do not put all eggs in one basket.

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6. *ON EXPECTATIONS:* 

Honesty is a very expensive gift. Do not expect it from cheap people.

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7. Past is a waste paper, present is a newspaper, and future is a question paper. Come out of your past, control the present, and secure the future.

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8. When bad things happen in your life, you have three choices. You can either let it define you, let it destroy you or you can let it strengthen you.

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9. Our eyes are in the front because it is more important to look ahead than to look backwards.

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10. We use pencil when we were young, but now we use pens. Do you know why? Because mistakes in childhood can easily be erased, unlike now.

 *Happy New Year.*

HABITS TO TRANSFORM YOUR LIFE IN 21 DAYS

𝐇𝐚𝐛𝐢𝐭𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐬𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐦 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝟐𝟏 𝐝𝐚𝐲𝐬:

1. Attitude is crucial:

Every- thing that happens to you is a challenge and an opportunity at the same time.

2. How you respond is key:

what hurts us is not what happens to us, but our response to what happens to us. The most important thing is how we RESPOND to what happens to us in our lives. And that is a CHOICE!

3. Keep your self talk positive:

Keep the conversation with yourself positive, such as "I want to achieve success", "I want to be slim", "God, I am good", because your subcon- scious mind doesn't understand the little word "NO". It sees your words as IMAGES.

4. Choose your thoughts carefully:

"If you realized how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought," 

5. New habits new life:

The coaching process is, in its essence a process of changing the client's habits over time by introducing new ways of doing things 

If you keep doing what you are doing, you will keep getting the results you are getting.

6. Watch your words:

The words that we use to describe our experiences become our experiences!